“The Power of Forgiveness: Reflecting God’s Grace”

Matthew 6:14-15For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”

Forgiveness is central to the Christian faith. From the moment we accept Christ as our Savior, we are called into a life of forgiveness, both in receiving it from God and extending it to others. Our salvation hinges on God’s forgiving nature, and in turn, we are expected to reflect that forgiveness in our lives.

In Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus highlights this truth by making it clear that the forgiveness we extend to others directly impacts the forgiveness we receive from our Heavenly Father. This is a profound and challenging call, but one that comes with immense spiritual benefits.

The Foundation of Forgiveness: God’s Example

Our journey toward forgiveness begins with understanding how God has forgiven us. Romans 5:8 reminds us, “But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.” Despite our sin, God offered forgiveness through the sacrifice of His Son, Jesus Christ. This act of grace lays the foundation for our understanding of forgiveness.

Consider Ephesians 4:32, “And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.” Here, Paul makes it clear that the basis of our forgiveness of others is rooted in the forgiveness we have received from God. He has pardoned us despite our flaws and rebellion, and He calls us to do the same for others.

God’s forgiveness is:

  • Complete: Psalm 103:12, “As far as the east is from the west, so far hath he removed our transgressions from us.”
  • Undeserved: Isaiah 1:18, “Though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow.”
  • Unconditional: Luke 23:34, where Jesus prayed, “Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do.”

If God, who is perfect, extends such grace, how much more should we, who are imperfect, forgive those around us?

The Command to Forgive Others

Jesus does not merely suggest that we forgive others; He commands it. Matthew 6:14-15 says, “For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”

Matthew 6:14-15 tells us that our willingness to forgive others impacts God’s willingness to forgive us. This is not to suggest that we earn God’s forgiveness through our actions, but rather that a heart unwilling to forgive reveals a heart that may not fully grasp the gravity of its own need for grace.

We see this principle echoed in the Parable of the Unforgiving Servant in Matthew 18:23-35. The servant, having been forgiven an enormous debt by his master, refuses to forgive a fellow servant of a far smaller amount. The master’s response is severe: he rescinds his forgiveness of the servant and casts him into prison until the debt is paid. Jesus concludes this parable with a sobering warning: “So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses” (Matthew 18:35). Forgiveness, then, is not optional for the believer—we must be forgiving people.

The Power of Forgiveness in Our Lives

Forgiveness does more than align us with God’s will; it also sets us free. When we harbor unforgiveness, we allow bitterness and anger to take root, damaging our spiritual, emotional, and even physical well-being. Ephesians 4:31-32 tells us to, “Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamor, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another.”

To forgive is to let go of the chains that bind us. When we refuse to forgive, we are the ones who suffer the most. It has been said, “Unforgiveness is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die.”

Christ’s forgiveness on the cross was not just for the remission of sin but also for healing and restoration. In Luke 4:18, Jesus declares, “The Spirit of the Lord is upon me… he hath sent me to heal the brokenhearted.” Part of that healing process includes letting go of offenses.

Practical Steps to Forgiveness

Forgiveness can be difficult, especially when the offense is great. However, the Bible gives us clear steps to cultivate a heart of forgiveness:

  • Pray for the Offender: Matthew 5:44, “But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you.” Prayer softens our hearts and opens the door for God to work in the situation.
  • Release the Debt: Like the master in Matthew 18, we must release the “debt” the offender owes us. This does not mean forgetting the offense but choosing to no longer hold it against them.
  • Seek Reconciliation, if Possible: Romans 12:18, “If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.” While forgiveness is a personal act, reconciliation takes two. We must do our part, trusting God with the rest.
  • Trust God’s Justice: Forgiveness does not mean that justice is overlooked. Romans 12:19 reminds us, “Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.” God will deal with wrongdoers in His time and in His way.

Conclusion

Forgiveness is not easy, but it is essential. We are forgiven people, called to forgive others. As we strive to follow Christ’s example, let us remember Colossians 3:13, “Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.” May we reflect God’s grace, showing the world what it truly means to live forgiven and free.